REINVENTING THE WHEEL OF RECOVERY: Knowing When To Leave Well Enough Alone.
No doubt most, if not all, of you are familiar with Alcoholics Anonymous. In deed many of you either attend, or know of a friend or family member who attends, that fellowship. Well lately a movement has arisen among Christians to “better define” the term Higher Power that Alcoholics in this program often site. The movement is called Celebrate Recovery, a “Christ-centered” 12-step ministry founded in 1991 by John Baker, an associate pastor of Saddleback Church. To quote Baker, its purpose “is to fellowship and celebrate God's healing power in our lives through the "8 Recovery Principles." This experience allows us to "be changed." By working and applying these Biblical principles, we begin to grow spiritually. We become free from our addictive, compulsive and dysfunctional behaviors. This freedom creates peace, serenity, joy and most importantly, a stronger personal relationship with God and others. As we progress through the program we discover our personal, loving and forgiving Higher Power - Jesus Christ, the one and only true Higher Power.”
The 8 Recovery Principles are as follows:
Principle 1 -
Realize I'm not God; I admit that I am powerless to control my tendency to do the wrong thing and my life is unmanageable.
"Happy are those who know they are spiritually poor"
Principle 2 -
Earnestly believe that God exists, that I matter to him, and that he has the power to help me recover.
"Happy are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted"
Principle 3 -
Consciously choose to commit all my life and will to Christ's care and control.
"Happy are the meek"
Principle 4 -
Openly examine and confess my faults to God, to myself, and to someone I trust.
"Happy are the pure in heart"
Principle 5 -
Voluntarily submit to every change God wants to make in my life and humbly ask Him to remove my character defects.
"Happy are those whose greatest desire is to do what God requires"
Principle 6 -
Evaluate all my relationships; Offer forgiveness to those who have hurt me and make amends for harm I've done to others except when to do so would harm them or others.
"Happy are the merciful" "Happy are the peacemakers"
Principle 7 -
Reserve a daily time with God for self examination, Bible readings and prayer in order to know God and His will for my life and to gain the power to follow His will.
Principle 8 -
Yield myself to God to be used to bring this Good News to others, both by my example and by my words.
"Happy are those who are persecuted because they do what God requires"
In the forward to Celebrate Recovery, Rick Warren, head pastor of Saddleback, writes, “Most people are familiar with the classic 12 step program of A.A. and other groups. While undoubtedly many lives have been helped through the twelve steps, I've always been uncomfortable with that program's vagueness about the nature of God, the saving power of Jesus Christ, and the ministry of the Holy Spirit. So I began an intense study of the Scriptures to discover what God had to say about "recovery." To my amazement, I found the principles of recovery, and even their logical order, given by Christ in his most famous message, the Sermon on the Mount.”
Warren is not alone in his belief about the “vagueness” concerning the nature of God in A.A. and other 12-step programs. There is a prevailing and pervading sentiment among certain groups, particularly Christian groups, that the 12-step process is not only vague on God, but that it is not even spiritual. Such sentiments have sadly taken root because of two key factors, neither of which has ever represented A.A. or any other 12-step group: The first is sheer ignorance; the second is misapplication. A look at both is in order.
Most of the critics of A.A. fall into two categories: those who have never been a part of it, and hence have no idea what goes on at an actual meeting; and those who have gone, but who have refused to apply the basic “spiritual” principles of the program. While neither speaks on behalf of the program – in deed A.A. has no official spokesperson – both end up defining for the world what A.A. is. I suppose the rest are too busy staying sober!
I won’t dwell on the latter – those who simply refuse to “work” the program. I’ll leave such souls to the torment of their disease. Instead, I wish to concentrate on the group that seems obsessed with branding A.A. as a non-spiritual (i.e. non-Christian) program. This obsession has its roots in a belief that if only the 12 steps of A.A. simply defined God from a Christian perspective then the power of Christ would be unleashed in the lives of millions of people, thus permanently freeing them from their “addictive, compulsive and dysfunctional behaviors,” as Baker put it. Such a 12-step group would be truly unique in its approach, a successor to the venerable, if worn out, ambiguity of A.A.
If only Baker and Warren actually knew the true origins of Alcoholics Anonymous, actually knew something about what they were talking about, their demeanor, and that of countless others, might be different. For those who care, and for those who already know, it is time to pull back the curtain and get at the truth of the matter.
For those who believe that until 1991, there had never been a Christ-centered recovery program, I present to you the Oxford Group. The group was a self-styled first-century Christian movement founded by Frank Buchman, a Protestant evangelist, in about 1919. It advocated finding God through surrender to Him, a moral inventory, a confession of defects, elimination of sin, restitution, reliance upon God, and helping others. It appeared from the successes of several alcoholics in the Oxford Group that a conversion experience (which they chose to call a spiritual experience, and later a "change") would relieve alcoholics of the mental obsession that kept sending them back to alcoholism after periods of sobriety.
One of its members, Ebby Thacher, visited an old school friend of his, Bill Wilson, in November of 1934. Wilson had been hospitalized several times over the years for alcohol poisoning and had been warned that he would wind up either dead or in an asylum if he did not stop. Still, though he knew the state of his malady, he found he didn’t have the will to keep from drinking. Ebby announced, “I’ve got religion.” Then he proceeded to tell Bill of his story. In Bill’s own words, "My friend sat before me, and he made the point-blank declaration that God had done for him what he could not do for himself."
Bill was deeply impressed by Ebby's words, but was even more affected by Ebby's example of action. Here was someone who drank like Bill drank - and yet Ebby was sober, due to a simple religious idea and a practical program of action.
Sadly, Bill would need to make one more trip to the hospital due to his drinking. While there, he finally had what many have called a conversion. The Conference approved biography, Pass It On, quotes Bill as describing this experience: "What happened next was electric. Suddenly, my room blazed with an indescribably white light. I was seized with an ecstasy beyond description. Every joy I had known was pale by comparison. The light, the ecstasy - I was conscious of nothing else for a time.
”Then, seen in the mind's eye, there was a mountain. I stood upon its summit, where a great wind blew. A wind, not of air, but of spirit. In great, clean strength, it blew right through me. Then came the blazing thought, "You are a free man." I know not at all how long I remained in this state, but finally the light and the ecstasy subsided. I again saw the wall of my room. As I became more quiet, a great peace stole over me, and this was accompanied by a sensation difficult to describe. I became acutely conscious of a Presence, which seemed like a veritable sea of living spirit. I lay on the shores of a new world."
Bill questioned whether he had a genuine conversion or was on the verge of madness. Dr. Silkworth advised him that "hopeless alcoholics" sometimes report conversion experiences before being "turned around" toward recovery. Ebby brought Bill a copy of William James' Varieties of Religious Experience. Silkworth had also read this book, which contained many conversion accounts. Bill spent the better part of the day poring through its contents and concluded that his experience was like those reported by James. Silkworth advised Bill that he had undergone a genuine conversion. In AA Comes of Age, Bill states that Dr. Silkworth "reminded me of Professor William James's observation that truly transforming spiritual experiences are nearly always founded on calamity and collapse."
Bill found that his own sobriety seemed to grow stronger when he shared his personal alcoholic experience with other alcoholics. He was on the verge of a relapse while on a business trip to Akron, Ohio. Desperate, he decided to phone local ministers from the lobby of his hotel and ask if they knew of alcoholics he could talk to. Eventually, he found his way to Dr. Bob Smith, another hopeless alcoholic. The two talked for hours about their respective problems. Dr. Bob would eventually go out on one more spree before finally putting down alcohol for good. That date was June 10, 1935, the official birth of Alcoholics Anonymous.
Unfortunately, Ebby, the man who brought the message of hope to Bill, would end up getting drunk, and for the remaining years of his life would continue to battle alcoholism. He eventually died in 1966. He was never able to come to grips with his disease, and often resented the fact that Bill was thought of as the founder of A.A.
As for the Oxford Group, prior to World War II it changed its name to Moral Re-Armament, in a belief that divine guidance would prevent war from breaking out. While Bill and Dr. Bob were inspired by the Oxford Group, they eventually split with the group because of one – and only one – underlying reason. While it was true that many alcoholics found hope in the spiritual principles espoused by the group, its primary mission statement (or primary purpose, if you will) was not to help alcoholics recover from alcoholism; it was to encourage non-believers to convert to Christianity. Like Ebby, it put the cart before the horse. While A.A. would grow into the program we know today, spawning more than a dozen off-chutes, the Oxford Group became a footnote in the annals of recovery.
Christianity has been responsible for bringing the message of Christ to millions of people, and in the process, has brought light and salvation to the world. But it was not until A.A. was formed that a program of true recovery, where the alcoholic can finally find freedom from his or her affliction, was made available to the world.
For those who still insist that its spirituality is vague, I give you these parting words from Dr. Bob. “If you think you are an atheist, an agnostic, a skeptic, or have any other form of intellectual pride which keeps you from accepting what is in this book, I feel sorry for you. If you still think you are strong enough to beat the game alone, that is your affair. But if you really and truly want to quit drinking liquor for good and all, and sincerely feel that you must have some help, we know that we have an answer for you. It never fails, if you go about it with one half the zeal you have been in the habit of showing when you were getting another drink. Your Heavenly Father will never let you down!”
People who worship the coffee pot at a meeting are no measure of the true success of any 12-step program, let alone the grand daddy of them all. If it bothers you that the word Christ does not appear in the Third Step, well then get over it. There are countless Jewish and Muslim people who got sober through A.A. Some of them might even have gotten saved later on in their journey. All deserved the same chance at recovery that you and I got. In deed, my own journey led me first to A.A., then to Christ. Imagine if when I first walked into an A.A. meeting and was told I had to accept Jesus first before I could get sober, what my response would’ve been. I dare say I would not be around to witness to God, much less write a blog about it.
If we truly believe in a God that pre-ordained everything from the beginning of time, then he must’ve willed that there would be an A.A. where the struggling alcoholic could be relieved from his malady, walk free under His direction, and spread the light of freedom to others who still struggled. If that isn’t spiritual, I don’t know what is. Why would anyone in their right mind want to mess with something like that? Would that the rest of the world be so uncomplicated. If you feel that you need more than A.A. in your walk, fine, but for God’s sake, let’s stop trying to reinvent a wheel that never needed to be reinvented in the first place.
Let’s, as they say in the rooms, Keep It Simple!